Monday, March 27, 2017

Fortify Our Foundations

This has been such a great week! On Monday after getting some work done and following up on some missionaries, and before FHE,  I made two Texas sheet cakes for the mega-zone conference on Tuesday in Brooklyn.  Then on Tuesday, the day was spent at the conference.

Wednesday, I did laundry, went shopping, and of course, my usual nursing work.  That evening I had the pleasure of dinner with some of the sisters.



Sisters Steninger, Krause, Yu, and Bush

On Thursday evening, my dear friend, Jeri Maughn, from my home ward came to visit.  She has been my companion since then and it has been so fun!! Since she has been to NYC before, she didn't care to do the usual sight-seeing so we have been missionary companions.  We have walked and talked and just enjoyed being together sharing thoughts and experiences.

Friday we took two sisters from Flushing to lunch.  Sister Williams will be going home at the end of this transfer and I had promised her a duke before she leaves.  Besides, Jeri and I needed a duke too.



Jeri, Sisters Perkins and Williams at Arirang for Korean chicken noodles soup.
I love the Kim Chi daikon there. And of course the soup with pan noodles.

Jeri and Dukes

After lunch and dessert we had extra time so we walked to and around the park.

Friday evening we attended a baptism for two men taught by the elders and the sisters.  I led the music and as always, found a wonderful spirit in attendance.

Saturday, Jeri and I took a trip to Fire Island. It was misty and cloudy so we couldn't see far but it was still beautiful. 

















We climbed the lighthouse to the top and then went to Nicky's on the Bay in Bay Shore for lunch.  We were then dangerously close to Kilwins in Babylon so we ended up there for a candied apple.  These candied apples rank right up there almost with a duke!  I had a caramel dark chocolate sea salt covered apple.  Jeri had the caramel pecan covered apple.




Kilwins Sweets Shop

Jeri had New England clam chowder. I had "pink" seafood bisque with lobster, crab, and clams.

Many varieties of fudge and caramel apples

Saturday evening we attended the Women's Conference broadcast at the stake center. 

Sunday was fast Sunday for our ward.  I so enjoy the spirit of the meeting.  There is never a lull in testimony bearing.  In fact people often line up to bear their testimonies.

The people are mostly all converts and are full of the spirit and grateful for their membership in the Church. Each has a special story and often their conversion story is shared. The men who were baptized on Friday night were confirmed members of the Church and received the Gift of the Holy Ghost.  My heart is always touched when I see the faith and diligence that new or recent converts have.  I am grateful for my parents who taught me and brought me up in the church.  I have always been a member. I have not faced challenges because of my faith

I admire these converts as they overcome their addictions, family problems, exclusion from family and friends as they choose a way of life different from their loved ones.  The difficulties and trials that come to some of them are very hard.  They are grateful for many things. 

Today an elderly gentleman (I think he is in his 80's) bore his testimony and shared that this week he had passed the exam for citizenship.  He was so happy for this country and for the freedom to worship. 

These people are learning and building their testimonies daily.  I am reminded of a story I found in the Friend when I was looking for something to share with the Primary children a while back.  This is an article from May 2009 shared by President Monson. 

"Three Ways to Build a Strong Testimony

A Strong Road

In 1959, I met N. Eldon Tanner (1898-1982), who later would be a counselor to four Presidents of the Church. President Tanner was president of the Canada Calgary Stake. We discussed the cold Canadian winters, where temperatures can linger well below freezing and icy winds lower those temperatures even further.

I asked President Tanner why the roads in western Canada remained intact during such winters, showing little or no signs of cracking or breaking, while road surfaces in many areas where winters are less cold and less severe developed cracks and breaks and potholes.

Said he, "The answer is in the depth of the base of the paving materials. In order for them to remain strong and unbroken, it is necessary to go very deep with the foundation layers. When the foundations are not deep enough, the surfaces cannot withstand the extremes of weather."

Challenges and difficulties can break us if our foundations of faith, our testimonies of truth, are not deeply embedded within us.

A Strong Testimony

How can we gain and maintain the foundation needed to survive spiritually? May I offer three guidelines to help.

1. Prayer. When we remember that each of us is literally a spirit son or daughter of God, we will not find it difficult to approach Him in prayer. He knows us; He loves us; He wants what is best for us.

2. Scriptures. Spending time each day in scripture study will strengthen our foundations of faith and our testimonies of truth.

3. Service. There are others who need your help. In the Book of Mormon we read of noble King Benjamin. He declared: "When ye are in the service of your fellow beings ye are only in the service of your God" (Mosiah 2:17).

We can fortify our foundations of faith, our testimonies of truth, so that we will not falter, we will not fail."

I have a testimony that the Gospel of Jesus Christ has been restored to the earth through the Prophet Joseph Smith.  The Priesthood has been restored and this makes it possible for us to enjoy the blessings of covenants and ordinances that we make at baptism and in the Holy Temples.  We are led by a living prophet, Thomas S Monson.  The Book of Mormon testifies of our Savior and Redeemer, Jesus Christ, who died that we might live again.  He bore our sins and ills that we might be forgiven and find peace in that forgiveness.  He taught and showed us the things we must do to return to the presence of our Father in Heaven.  The Plan of Happiness gives us a road map of where we came from, why we are here, and where we can go.  Eternal families are a gift for which I am most grateful.

I pray that you will find peace in the Gospel of Jesus Christ and know for yourselves of these truths.

I love you my family and friends.


On Monday the snow plows went around trying to scrape up
the last of the snow from where cars had been parked.

Sunday dinner

Monday, March 20, 2017

Get Fit!

The snow storm on Tuesday was quite the deal!!  It wasn't the blizzard as advertised but it did drop a good 7-8 inches of snow followed by rain which then froze.  With temperatures in the 20's, the snow turned to solid ice.  I didn't go out on Tuesday and neither did the missionaries so no snow was shoveled.  Wednesday morning I decided I should at least clear off the steps in front of my door.  How foolish was I!  I would have needed a jack hammer to clear away the snow.  I sprinkled some snow melt on the ice but it had little effect on the thick ice layer.


Tuesday evening after the storm

Spending the day shut in was fun.  The sisters chose to spend much of the day with me too.  I did get a few things done like the first aid packets I give to the missionaries at the trainer/trainee meeting.  In fact I put together 30 kits so I will be prepared for a couple of months.


In each kit the new missionaries receive is an elastic wrap, Hand sanitizer, tooth flossers, hand wipes,
disposable thermometer, antibiotic ointment, and band-aids. My box of 30 kits.

Sisters Panoussi, Bush, Persinger and Steninger. My "shut-in" partners.

Wednesday evening, I went somewhere, I can't remember where, but when I got home about 8:30, someone had cleared off the steps and even shoveled the walk up to the church.  I don't know how in the world they did it but it was miraculous.  I asked the elders and one pair denied it outright, but the second pair I asked suggested that it was a ghost in the night.  I invited them to dinner on Sunday.

My car was frozen in the driveway so I rode to the mega-zone conferences this week with the Williams.  Thursday and Friday it warmed to the high 30's and some of the snow melted.  In the street at the end of the driveway there is still a large pile of frozen snow/ice pushed there by the snow plow.  Saturday, I decided that enough of the hill had melted so I braved the ice/snow/pile and got a running, sliding jump out of the driveway.  I was able to go grocery shopping and run a few other errands.

There are some cars though, that are still stuck behind mountains of snow.  Another warm day tomorrow is predicted so by Monday, maybe most people will be able to get their cars unburied.  Good thing public transportation is so good here.


We had some snow on Wednesday to add to Tuesday's storm. This picture shows how the cars are buried.
Imagine trying to dig you car out of this pile of ice!! (Today, Sunday, I saw people still unburying their cars.
Most are out though.)

The zone conference scheduled for Tuesday was postponed so all would be safe in the storm.  Wednesday the conference was in Flushing.  There was a bit of a storm that day too but the William's have a four wheel drive so they were able to get out of the driveway with no difficulty.

Thursday the conference was in Woodside and Friday it was in Plainview.  This conference cycle I decided to do a presentation on the importance of exercise.  This is what I based my presentation on:


The senior couples help with the lunches at the conferences. We were ahead of schedule so here
you see us catching up. Elder Williams, Sister Adams, me, Elder Johnson and Elder Adams.

Lunch

My posters

When many people decide to "get fit," they assume it involves rigorous activity. But you don't have to spend hours in a gym to be physically active. You can get in shape by performing everyday activities in the home. Every time you climb a flight of stairs, walk to the store, or carry packages, your health and fitness levels are improving.

When someone is physically fit, they feel and look better, and stay healthier. The earlier a person starts getting in shape, the more they'll reduce their risk of numerous illnesses. Here are some of the benefits that physical activity offers you:

1. It strengthens the heart. The heart is a muscle. Like other muscles, its performance improves when it's regularly challenged by exercise. The heart responds to exercise by becoming stronger and more efficient. Strengthening the heart muscle can help ward off heart disease -- the leading cause of death in the United States, according to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services -- even in early childhood.

2. It helps keep arteries and veins clear. Exercise reduces the amount of harmful cholesterol and fats in a person's blood. It increases the flexibility of the walls of blood vessels, and helps to lower blood pressure. This can reduce a person's risk for heart attack and stroke.

3. It strengthens the lungs. Working hard increases lung capacity, and their efficiency in moving air in and out of the body. As a result, more oxygen is drawn into the body and more carbon dioxide and other waste gases are expelled. Regular exercise helps prevent the decline in oxygen intake that occurs naturally with age or as a result of inactivity.

4. It reduces blood sugar levels. Exercise prevents sugar from accumulating in the blood by triggering muscles to take up more glucose from the bloodstream and use it for energy. This can reduce a person's risk of developing diabetes.

5. It controls weight. When a person is sedentary, he tends to be taking in more calories than are needed. These unused calories accumulate as fat. A person who is physically active may have a deficit of calories, which takes fat away and lowers weight. Lowered weight is good for the heart and can be beneficial in people with diabetes.

6. It strengthens bones. Just as muscles grow stronger when physically stressed, bones also respond by getting stronger. Exercise increases bone density, which helps prevent osteoporosis, a condition in which bones lose density, weaken, and become porous and fragile.

7. It improves energy levels. Regular exercise often makes people feel more energetic, allows them to be more active, and reduces the likelihood that they'll tire during the day.

8. It enhances emotional well-being. Most people report that they feel calm and have a sense of well-being after they exercise. Exercise, according to one theory, releases beta-endorphin, a natural substance in the body that is hundreds of times more potent than morphine. Another theory points to serotonin as the cause of the exercise high. Increased levels of serotonin in the central nervous system are associated with feelings of well-being, heightening of appetite, and lessening of mental depression. The weight loss that accompanies exercise can also cause people to feel better about themselves.

The Human Body: A Gift and a Responsibility
Larry Tucker BYU professor of exercise sciences when this devotional address was given 28 May 2013.

The Lord understands everything about the human body. He created it. He knows how to make it healthy and what causes it to weaken and die. As He demonstrated with the Three Nephites and with John the Beloved, if He desires He can modify the physical tabernacle so that it will not get sick or die. Science is a long way from those discoveries, but, gradually, through research and the Lord's inspiration, we are learning how to best nourish, exercise, and repair the body.

In Doctrine and Covenants 130 we learn that if we want the blessings of good health, we have to obey certain laws. I love verses 20 and 21:

There is a law, irrevocably decreed in heaven before the foundations of this world, upon which all blessings are predicated-

And when we obtain any blessing from God, it is by obedience to that law upon which it is predicated.


Notice that all blessings are predicated on obedience to certain laws. Blessings-and, for that matter, negative consequences-do not occur randomly. Natural laws govern all aspects of the universe, including how the human body functions. These laws are eternal and unchanging. They are "truths." I find it fascinating to watch as new discoveries are made regularly, helping us better understand the eternal truths that govern all that we as humans know and have yet to learn.

We now know that much of good health and disease is determined by living or not living certain laws.

I love to get up in the morning and go to work to study the laws that govern human health and disease. These laws are intriguing to me. As Church members we are greatly blessed to have some of the most important and basic laws of health in the Word of Wisdom. I fear that many Church members underestimate the value of the Word of Wisdom. These truths are not all-inclusive, but there are many wonderful laws of health contained within the twenty-one verses of Doctrine and Covenants 89. Given that these truths were revealed in the early 1800s, they are remarkable in their coverage and accuracy. However, there is a catch. We must obey the laws to receive the blessings.

The effects of abiding by spiritual laws are typically gradual, line upon line. If we miss our morning prayer or skip our daily scripture study, there are consequences. We may not notice any change, but we will be different, ever so slightly. Fortunately we do not lose our testimonies in a day. If we miss another day, the effects are more significant, but we still may not notice any difference. Slowly but surely our testimonies grow or deteriorate based on the extent to which we nourish them. Over time the consequences of what seem to be insignificant choices accumulate, and we become who we now are.
The same is true regarding our lifestyle decisions and the health of our bodies. Line upon line, day by day, our bodies change ever so slightly based on what we eat, the extent to which we exercise, and other important choices. The daily consequences appear insignificant, but when summed together the effects are amazing-often dictating the diseases we develop, how long we live, and the quality of our lives.

On Thursday after zone conference, I went into Manhattan and had dinner with my niece, Alica and her husband, Matt, and their daughters, Aspen, Brooke, and Callie.  They came from Phoenix to NYC for spring break-just in time for the blizzard.  I enjoyed my dinner with them and appreciated the place they chose.  Max Brenner:  Chocolate by the Bald Guy.   You can read about it here.



Matt, Aspen, Brooke, Alicia and Callie

They couldn't get an available taxi so they arrived in a white limo!!!

The restaurant is in the area of Union Square Park.  There is a statue there of George Washington.  It is the oldest statue in the NYC Parks collection.  It is a very nice park.  I think I will go back on a more spring-like day and explore it more thoroughly.


You may read about the statue here

Across the street from the George Washington statue is a large creation on the sides of two adjacent buildings.  It apparently has caused quite a ruckus in the city.  I think it is interesting but many object to it.  The work is called the Metronome.  The digital clock is most interesting.  I encourage you to read about this.  The part about the clock is nearer the end of the article.




You may read about it here.

This city is full of amazing things.  Around every corner I find something that catches my eye or piques my interest.

This week I had occasion to study about feeling and recognizing the Spirit in our lives. The gift of the Holy Ghost I received at baptism blesses me in every way. I rely on and can count on that guidance as long as I am trying to do my part.  One of the talks I read was given by Sister Linda K Burton at a CES devotional at BYU-Idaho.  You may read it here.

I pray that you will enjoy the guidance and peace that the Holy Ghost can bring to you.

I love you my family and friends.


Before each conference the missionaries may have yogurt with granola. Sister Reynolds brings boxes
that each contain blueberry, strawberry and peach yogurt. The strawberry goes first and then the peach.
At the end there is ALWAYS a lot of blueberry and a few peach left over. On Friday I decided to
tackle the problem. We actually had a few strawberry left and much fewer cartons of blueberry!

You may remember Laura from previous blogs. She is a convert from Colombia. She desperately
wanted to attend the temple. She obtained her recommend the day before she left to return to her home
because her visa expired. I received pictures this week. She made it to the temple.
She is one happy young woman!

I love the blue skies and Jake, my hiking son. I appreciate the pictures he sends of the mountains I miss.

On my walk Saturday, there was a flock of birds around two houses. They were chirping noisily.
I only captured a picture of a small portion of the number.

Sunday dinner. Tula, me, Elder Wilkins, Sisters Persinger, Bush, Steninger, Panoussi,
Elders Winters, Aguilera, and Menden

Tula. My 92 year old friend from my ward. She is from Peru originally but has lived here for many years.
She said that when she moved here the only place to go to church was on Long Island. She has seen
the church grow and change in Queens and Brooklyn. She was the first Relief Society President in
the Rego Park 1st Ward. She is full of stories.

Monday, March 13, 2017

DARE TO DO RIGHT!

For singing time today, I borrowed an idea from Katie.  We are going to learn a medley of Stand for the Right and Dare to do Right.  The children know Stand for the Right so to help them learn Dare to do Right I began with a story from The Friend by Elder Rex Pinegar:

"I dare you!" are words boys and girls often hear from friends who want you to prove to them that you are brave or strong or daring. They may ask you to do something that your parents or teachers have told you not to do-something that you know is wrong to do. I have learned that when we do something we know is wrong, we show weakness rather than strength. A person shows true bravery and strength only when he has the courage to do right.

Once, when I was about seven years old, I had a pal whom I liked very much. We often walked home from school together. We talked about such things as what happened at school that day or what we were going to be when we grew up. We talked of being brave and of being able to do many things.

Sometimes we would dare each other to jump across a ditch or to climb a tree just to prove that we were brave or that we could do things we had seen older boys and girls do.

As we came to my home one day we stood out by the road and talked about who was the fastest runner in the school. The discussion got a little louder as both of us began boasting. When I strongly insisted that I could run faster than my friend, he turned to me and said, "If you're so fast, I dare you to run across the road before that car gets here!"

I looked up the road and saw a car a short distance away. Without another word I dashed into the road to prove that I was fast and brave. A moment later the car's brakes squealed! Its bumper hit me, and I landed in an unconscious heap.

When I opened my eyes, my aching body, a hurt pride, and my mother's anxious face made me realize that I had been neither fast nor brave. I had only been foolish. I had brought sadness to myself and to others.

Fortunately, my injuries healed quickly. Of greater importance was the lesson I learned that has been valuable to me throughout my life. I learned that the only dare a person should ever accept is the DARE TO DO RIGHT.

If you accept a dare to do something that is not right, something that Heavenly Father or your parents would not want you to do, you will be left with a sad and disappointed feeling. When you dare to do right you will have a good feeling about yourself."

Next I introduced the words of the song with another story.  The bold letters are the lines of the song which I sang and then the children repeated after me.

Our prophet, Thomas S. Monson, told a story about when he was in the Navy. I would like to tell it to you now in his words.

"Navy boot camp was not an easy experience for me...I shall ever remember when Sunday rolled around after the first week. We received welcome news from the chief petty officer. Standing at attention on the drill ground in a brisk California breeze, we heard his command: "Today everybody goes to church!"  Then he shouted, "All of you Catholics, you meet in Camp Decatur-and don't come back until three o'clock. Forward, march!"

Dare to do right! Dare to be true!

Then he barked out his next command: "Those of you who are Jewish, you meet in Camp Henry-and don't come back until three o'clock. Forward, march!" Then he said, "The rest of you Protestants, you meet in the theaters at Camp Farragut-and don't come back until three o'clock. Forward, march!"

You have a work that no other can do;

Instantly there flashed through my mind the thought, "Monson, you are not a Catholic; you are not a Jew; you are not a Protestant. You are a Mormon, so you just stand here!" I can assure you that I felt completely alone. Courageous and determined, yes-but alone.

Do it so bravely, so kindly, so well,

Then the chief petty officer looked in my direction and asked, "And just what do you guys call yourselves?" Until that very moment I had not realized that anyone was standing beside me or behind me on the drill ground. Almost in unison, each of us replied, "Mormons Sir!" It is difficult to describe the joy that filled my heart as I turned around and saw a handful of other sailors.

Angels will hasten the story to tell.

The chief petty officer thought for a moment and finally said, "Well, you guys go find somewhere to meet. And don't come back until three o'clock. Forward, march!"

Dare, dare, dare to do right;

As we marched away, I thought of the words of a rhyme I had learned in Primary years before:

Dare to be a Mormon;
Dare to stand alone.
Dare to have a purpose firm;
Dare to make it known.
Dare, dare, dare to be true,

Since that day, there have been times when there was no one standing behind me and so I did stand alone. How grateful I am that I made the decision long ago to remain strong and true. May we always be prepared to stand for what we believe and if we must stand alone, may we do so courageously, strengthened by the knowledge the we are never alone when we stand with our Father in Heaven.

Dare to be true, dare to be true.

My oldest granddaughter, Cicilee, joined the Navy and is now in boot camp in Chicago.  This story about President Monson reminded me of Cicilee.  It has been really hard for her but I am so proud of her for her commitment and dedication to serving our country.  She passed a test last week and had the highest score of all of the women in the camp. She will graduate boot camp on April 7th (I'll be going there to see it.) and then she will go to Monterrey CA for language training.  She will be learning Russian and Arabic and other languages for 2 years before she begins her work as a CTI-cryptologic technician interpretive.  She will be translating classified documents and interrogating prisoners as I understand it.  She certainly is daring to choose the right!"



Tuesday was transfer day here in the mission.  We received 13 new missionaries and 7 completed their missions and returned home on Wednesday.  I was again privileged to go to the mission home to hear and feel their departing testimonies.


Departing missionaries with Sister and President Reynolds

The sisters leaving the church for the mission home.

Sisters Bugingo snd Morales. Elder Garza and Sister Johnson

Sisters Dos Santos, Tarnasky, Fitt

Thursday I went to Brooklyn to pick up some glasses at Costco for a missionary who was transferred out on Long Island.  The Costco is located in a large industrial area called Industry City.  It is probably the largest Costco I have been in and it was packed.  The parking lot was full and it wasn't even Saturday!


Rows of warehouses in Industry City

Costco and parking lot

The area is large and full of huge buildings.  If you would like to read about Industry City (here), it is quite interesting.

After I picked up the glasses I drove out to Hicksville.  I got to have an early dinner with the elders.  They chose Chick-fil-a.


Elder Nielson in his new glasses with Elder Rhodes

It was a beautiful warm day.  I had to turn on the air conditioner in my car it was so warm. 

Friday morning I woke to a snow storm.  It wasn't bad though thank goodness.  I went into Manhattan twice to accompany two different missionaries for treatment.  After the last trip into the city, I was hungry so I coerced the missionary I was with to have dinner with me at NUR, a Thai restaurant close to my apartment.  I had Tom Kha soup and Thai salad.  She had drunken noodles. (This Thai dish features pad Thai rice noodles and crispy tofu. Roasted red chili paste and jalapeƱo add fiery spice to the sweet-and-savory sauce.)   For dessert we shared sticky rice and mangoes.  Delicious meal!!


Snow on the trees looking out of the window in Manhattan

Sign on the train:  One Book New York. People are to read one of five books
and vote on which one is best. Sort of a city wide read-a-thon.

Thai salad

Drunken noodles


Tom kha. This classic chicken and coconut soup gets its rich and dynamic flavor from
quintessential Thai ingredients: coconut milk, lemongrass, fresh ginger, lime juice, fish sauce,
chile paste, basil, and cilantro. It is really good!


Sticky rice and mangoes


We stopped in a .99 Store to get a hand mirror to use in the nursery at primary. I saw this
red sequined hat and had to try it on. My companion snapped my silliness so thought I'd share.

Saturday was the ward Relief Society birthday luncheon.  I only attended for a few minutes and then was called away for a conference call with our area medical doctor in Boston and an elder in Utah from our mission who is home recuperating with a knee injury.  Hopefully he will be able to return soon.

Saturday afternoon I took a sister to urgent care and did my grocery shopping at Stop & Shop (NY version of Smith's) next door to the UC while she was being treated.


Saturday night salad dinner

It has been a great week.  I have walked every day but today, Sunday.  I managed to get or exceed my 10,000 steps on 4 of the days.  I'm trying to get back into hiking condition after my winter of laziness. 

Life is good.  I love the Lord who has given me everything.  I am so grateful for my countless blessings.  I love my mission.  I love the missionaries.  I love the people of the New York.

I love you my family and friends.


Storm coming in on Tuesday



I got in on a skype with the sisters in Bermuda. Sisters Thompson and Wuthrich